THERAPY

Couples Therapy & Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

Shift from constant conflict to secure connection. Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) is a validated roadmap for rebuilding trust and intimacy.

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The Path to Self Understanding

Explore the unconscious patterns that shape your relationships, emotional world, and sense of self.

Naming the Conflict Cycle

When a relationship enters a state of distress, partners quickly become trapped in a painful, highly predictable cycle. An argument about a minor household chore rapidly escalates into a profound battle over validation, safety, and respect. Our specialized couples therapists utilize Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), an empirically supported, gold-standard modality, to slow down this reactivity.

UNCONSCIOUS PATTERNS
INTERNAL BLUEPRINTS

Understanding Your Partners Emotional Survival Strategy

Every individual enters a romantic partnership carrying a unique attachment history. When your authenticity and your relational attachment feel at odds, your neurobiology will always prioritize survival. We work collaboratively with you and your partner to complete a thorough relational mapping process.

UNCONSCIOUS PATTERNS
INTERNAL BLUEPRINTS

Restructuring the Relational Bond

True relational healing requires moving past simple communication tips or compromised behavior agreements.

Solutions

Healing in relationships begins by moving beyond communication tips

Emotional Needs

Therapy helps you identify and express your fundamental needs for acceptance

Secure Connection

By communicating, partners create a strong sense of emotional security.

1. Exposing the Scripts YouInherited

Much of our adult behavior is dictated by "scripts"— unconscious narratives written in our earliest years. We help you identify these invisible directives, allowing you to choose a new path rather than repeating old cycles. This is the first step toward true psychological sovereignty.

"The body keeps the score, and recovery begins by listening to the silent language of the nervous system."

Our clinicians help you map the difference between historical memory and current-moment activation, providing the tools to separate past threats from present safety.

SYMPATHETIC

Hyper-arousal, fight or flight
activation patterns.

DORSAL VAGAL

Hypo-arousal, numbness, and freeze responses.

Tracking Biological State Changes

Recovery requires a biological literacy. We teach you to identify where your nervous system resides on the polyvagal ladder, transforming "unexplained" anxiety into observable biological shifts that can be managed and regulated.

Gold-Standard, Replicable HealingTracks

We avoid the "one-size-fits-all" trap. Your recovery
plan is structured around clinically validated
modalities designed for deep, lasting neuroplastic
change.

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EMDR THERAPY

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing for rapid bilateraltrauma integration.

02
SOMATIC EXPERIENCING

Bottom-up regulation to release energy trapped in the physical
body.

03
TRAUMA-FOCUSED CBT

Restructuring the narratives formed in the wake of traumatic
impact.

EXPERTISE

Meet Our Clinicians

Aparna Natarajan, LMSW

New York City

Benjamin Carter, MHC-LP

New York City

Mia Smith, LPCC

Denver

Dr. Riley Harper, Ph.D. PSYC

Denver

Ann Erisman, LPCC

Denver

Mallory Bodker, LMSW

New York City

Lena Trieger, LMSW

New York City

︎︎︎Dr. Andrew Silipo, Psy.D. LP

Long Island

Ella Martin, LPCC

Denver

Alicia Riggs, LPCC

Denver

Ningyuan Tang, MHC-LP

New York City

Yufei Liu, MHC-LP

New York City

Stewart Schweinfurth, LMSW

New York City

Lisa Lindsey, LCAT

New York City

Erica McDonald, LMSW

New York City

Jingyi Liao, MHC-LP

New York City

Tanya Ilela, LPC

Denver

Lisha Dash, LMSW

Long Island

Victoria Gagliano, LMSW

New York City

Alice Gong, LMSW

Long Island

Brian Mindlin, LMSW

New York City

Dr. Katja Waldron, LPCC, Ph.D.

Denver

︎︎︎Tala Abu Rahma, LMSW

New York City

︎︎︎Emily Chernow, LCSW

New York City

︎︎︎Tyara Dabrio, MHC-LP

New York City

︎︎︎Dr. Ang Romulus, Psy.D.

Long Island

︎︎︎Cheyenne Mullan, LPC

Denver

︎︎︎Sadaf Hasnain, LMSW

New York City

︎︎︎Jennifer Cook, LCSW

New York City

︎︎︎Michael Pollet

Portland

︎︎︎Dr. Allyson Cole, Psy.D.

New York City

Long Island